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- May 07, 1990: A Parent's View Of Pop Sex & Violence
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1990
- May 07, 1990 Dirty Words
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- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- SHOW BUSINESS, Page 100
- A Parent's View of Pop Sex and Violence
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- <body>
- <p>By Charles P. Alexander
- </p>
- <p> My two sons, ages 8 and 4, are having a deprived childhood,
- and they resent it. Although virtually all their friends have
- seen Batman and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, my wife and I have
- stubbornly refused to let our children join the crowds at the
- box office. We cling to the old-fashioned, even reactionary,
- notion that watching one act of violence after another may be
- harmful to very young minds.
- </p>
- <p> Are we being ridiculous? I admit that as a kid I saw Roy
- Rogers shoot-'em-ups and the brutal battles between Elmer Fudd
- and Daffy Duck. These didn't warp me for life. But I never saw
- anything so violent as Batman before I could tie my shoelaces,
- and to this day I don't have the stomach to watch The Texas
- Chainsaw Massacre. As a teenager I thought the Rolling Stones'
- Let's Spend the Night Together was cool, but it's a long way
- from that to this Guns N' Roses lyric: "Panties 'round your
- knees/ With your ass in debris/ Doin' dat grind with a push and
- squeeze/ Tied up, tied down, up against the wall..." Or this
- from 2 Live Crew: "Just nibble on my d like a rat does cheese."
- </p>
- <p> I realize that I can shelter my boys for only so long. As
- they grow older, I will lose control of them, and they will
- eagerly sample the forbidden fruit. I hope that by then they
- will have internalized my values. But I fear that pop culture
- and peer pressure may overwhelm my influence. Look at how our
- culture spurred drug use among the young.
- </p>
- <p> It is too easy to dismiss protests about pop entertainment
- as prudishness. Most concerned parents fret not so much about
- sex as about the combination of sex and violence. In heavy-metal
- music, there is often little difference between sex and rape.
- Too much of today's entertainment carries messages that are
- damaging to young psyches and dangerous to society. Among them:
- 1) women are sexual objects to be used and abused by men; 2)
- violence is an effective means of resolving conflicts; 3) it is
- O.K. to hate another class of people.
- </p>
- <p> Parents would not be so upset if the sex and violence were
- confined to the screen and stereo. But our children are at risk
- in the real world. While the total population of teenagers is
- dwindling, the number of murders and rapes committed by
- juveniles is on the rise. Teenage pregnancy has reached epidemic
- proportions. To a degree, entertainment just reflects what is
- already going on in society. But isn't it possible that pop
- culture reinforces and perhaps amplifies bad behavior? There are
- many reasons for teenage crime, including poverty, family
- problems and psychological ills, but who can say for sure that
- violent entertainment is not a contributing factor?
- </p>
- <p> Last year in New Jersey seven middle-class teens allegedly
- took a miniature baseball bat and sexually assaulted a
- 17-year-old mentally impaired girl as six friends looked on. Who
- knows what demons haunted the boys? Were they all
- psychologically disturbed, or were they acting normally in a
- culture where sexual violence is deemed tolerable, even
- entertaining? All parents have to live with fears that their
- daughter will be the next one assaulted or that their son will
- be one of the culprits.
- </p>
- <p> Whenever parents raise these concerns, the entertainment
- industry invokes the evil specter of censorship. But the U.S.
- has always had censorship. Even MTV has its own censors. What
- is truly strange is the argument that there should be no
- censorship whatsoever. Should hard-core pornography be allowed
- on prime-time, broadcast TV? Are there no limits? No society can
- survive if its only rule is, "Anything goes."
- </p>
- <p> So the question becomes, "What goes?" In general, this
- question should be answered not by governments but by artists,
- disk jockeys, producers, theater owners and media executives.
- There are no simple formulas for what is permissible. And there
- is always a serious danger that high-quality, progressive art
- will be stifled for the sake of community standards. But much
- commercial trash, crassly produced to exploit the vulnerable
- minds of young people, is easy to identify.
- </p>
- <p> No one is suggesting that society police every nightclub and
- root out every raunchy record from store shelves. There will
- always be filth on the fringes of entertainment. The problem
- arises when filth becomes mainstream, when it is mass-marketed.
- A few giant corporations, including Disney, Fox, MCA, Paramount,
- Time Warner, Britain's EMI, West Germany's Bertelsmann and
- Japan's Sony, produce a huge proportion of our children's
- entertainment. Many parents feel that these companies should
- take the lead in setting the standards for everyone.
- </p>
- <p> No rock group should be banned entirely, but perhaps some
- of them should lose their well-financed promotional campaigns.
- Entertainment firms have a responsibility to society that must
- be balanced with their mission to maximize profits for
- shareholders. Parents are now giving media executives a warning:
- "Make your marketing decisions more responsibly, or we will get
- governments to make them for you." That is a real threat, at
- least at the state and local level, and the very idea alarms
- anyone who values the First Amendment.
- </p>
- <p> Can the media companies mend their ways without government
- interference? There is certainly a precedent for it. In the
- 1960s and '70s, much entertainment, from Beatles music to the
- movies Easy Rider and M*A*S*H, glamourized drug use. But at some
- point, the world's artists, producers and media executives
- decided that promoting drugs was not a good thing. Nowadays the
- message that children receive from entertainment is strong and
- unambiguous: drugs are dangerous, and taking them is foolish.
- I hope that the future messages my two boys receive about sex
- and violence make just as much sense.
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